Ann Romney: Cry—it's not—again, is not sorrow for, oh, my gosh, you know, our lives are, you know, this dream—the dream was to make a difference. The dream was to serve.
Ann Romney: No, they didn't approach me [about running for Massachusetts Secretary of State]. I think there was a thought, 'Oh, wouldn't that be fun for Ann to do that.' I'm like, 'did anyone want to consider how fun it would be for me to do that?'"
I think I get it now. When Ann Romney says "the dream was to serve", she was just leaving out a couple of words. Like "have other people" and "me".